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MANIFESTATION
The 4th Passage of Evolution is the process of assessing what we planned to do in life, and what's actually been done & will likely be accomplished now based on our current momentum.
This is an opportunity for us to move past seeing ourselves through the eyes of everyone who raised, nurtured, challenged or harmed us- so we can grow into our own ideas of us, and regain a sense of innocence and personal meaning about who/how we are and why/how we live.

 It resonates with the Emotional Center then- as we discover how often we're manifesting personal happiness.
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In Biological Terms, this is marked by ADULTHOOD.
The Hormonal Wash we undergo here helps turn us within to look at how we can BE more- bringing greater emphasis to Peak Endurance+Physical Ability, Nurturing, Raising a Family and the fulfillment of our Career Life.
This Passage blows open the door to our inner-most core self- our Essence; so we can begin to feel a sort of mid-life crisis about living life as an honest reflection of who we truly are. (Though, this crisis doesn't always happen at mid-life, because we can begin and end each Passage at any time.)
We move from living based on who we thought we should be/were told we were, to living as who we decide we are/ 
want to be. In this way, it reveals the truth of our relationships & sense of inspiration- and thus our Mode.
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7 STAGES

(These stages can move from -Pole to -Pole, or -Pole to +Pole.

If one stage is stuck in its -Pole, all taken on after it will default to the -Pole as well: but once that stage moves into its +Pole, the next stage can now move into its +Pole.)

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STAGE 1- INITIATION

This Passage begins with a kind of -Indifference toward how we choose to define ourselves- as we don't care about how removed we might feel from our self/life, or distrust & ignore those feelings if we do.

With awareness though, this builds up into an +Enthusiasm that "something" IS different- as we feel a new anticipation for our potential future, accomplishments and the process of defining ourselves on our own terms. 

We start to feel impulses to take action in ways that will change our life, make it better, make a difference, make us happy- but whether those changes come or not, we find this wave of ideas helps us focus on how much we like our life.

STAGE 2- INTROSPECTION

A plummet into -Brooding over our past achievements with relentless self-examination and criticism occurs here- leading to implosion, self-degradation or blame (often from a scary parent or authoritarian voice we carry within that constantly belittles our mistakes, decisions, expression etc.).

So this is only shifted when we become +Aware of a supportive, parental source of Guidance that helps us realize

our personal worth and positive life impact.

STAGE 3- REALIZATION

We -Separate (Pull Back) from the future and all who reflect parts of us we don't want to confront: hiding within as we probe our beliefs. Until we +Free ourselves from forced identities & ideas of who we think we are, to create new ones- and realize with certainty that something must be done that finally breaks our old patterns.

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STAGE 4- MANIFESTATION

Feelings of -Otiose arise- where we feel empty, hollow, lost, floating, uncertain, ineffective, meandering etc.

We don't feel present because we're waiting for someone/thing else to define our direction/purpose for us- or we're struggling with life's demands, impositions and burdens while dismissing anything new that could change things & desperately holding onto comforts we've always known.
But this eventually shifts into a renewed sense of +Purpose when we realize how we're fueling, opening and evolving ourselves- choose what's important, meaningful, trusted & progressive for us- and begin to comfortably express all of our daily endeavors and activities as an honest reflection of us.

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STAGE 5- CONTENTMENT
We start to question ourselves through inner -Contention, combative arguments, debate and even grief- where we continue to resist, reject or refuse things, and what choices we've made that were part of our big plan/life purpose or were supposed to be good for us, but are not working nor satisfying to us anymore. 
Eventually this self-questioning turns into a sense of +Satisfaction and gratitude for what we've learned, how we choose to live & releasing what no longer serves us that's been programmed into our heads. Because we start to enjoy the truths these inner arguments bring, and lighten up about our movement and intentions.

What matters is what decisions now bring personal happiness- not whether we're good on others terms at our own expense, or have done enough & completed/accomplished a looming task we set out to fulfill.

STAGE 6- MAGNETIZATION

As we face the truth of ideas that are no longer valid about us & own what we've now decided is true of us, others seem to challenge, conflict with, reject and contradict these truths- leaving us with a sense of -Repulsion, isolation, depression and deep longing that arises from extremes of emotion, mood and tears.
Over time, we begin to +Attract relationships & paths that do support us (whether those be new or old)- learning how to strengthen, refine and fully embody our new truths using others input. So we create a more accurate, long-term view of the world our efforts are shaping, while building our future alongside any current "demands" of life.

STAGE 7- EMANATION

With the close of the 4th Passage, we fully commit to assessing all directions, values, feelings and things that are

-Incongruous with who we truly are- differentiating what IS ME from what is NOT ME.

This is a necessary process, as it helps us +Align with being our core/essence and living from our power of choice so that we can create greater presence, peace and wholeness in our self, our life and our terms.

PATH OF RESOLUTION
EXCLUSIVE SPECTRUM

As we explore Defining Ourselves on our own terms rather than by what we learned was true of us from our Imprinting (all beliefs/roles/standards taught or learned from our past, family, culture, society, relationships, spirituality etc.), a sense of -Acquiescence, great fear or apathy arises about this.
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  • We give up on ourselves, Resigning, Complying and Succumbing to who/how we are- but not really liking who that is. So we let anything but us rule over who we are.

  • We feel defined and fixed by Disappointment and Destructive Criticisms- needing to constantly Hide from what reflects us.

  • We feel Conflict is the only way to win and be right about our terms.

  • We try to Recapture or Replicate our Past- feeling that we've lost our innocence and/or need to make up for it- perhaps by trying to be/feel recklessly youthful again.

  • And we desperately seek Meaning, Purpose or Importance in life, always feeling unfulfilled.

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When this carries forth into our Elderhood, this often shows as a rise in pure resignation, constantly voiced resentments and preoccupations with the aches & pains of life.



INCLUSIVE SPECTRUM
A complete 4th Passage is marked by a +Self-Realization that we like ourselves & who we've chosen to be, and want to be involved in creating & responding to our life's choices and changes again. 

It’s a freeing from what others think we SHOULD do/be, to discover what we LOVE to do/be or feels personally meaningful for us to follow up on and manifest in life.
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  • We begin to appreciate our and everyone else's core Innocence in even the most trying times.

  • We return to participating in, contributing to and creating our life more flexibly- rather than based on everyone else's presumptions and expectations of us.

  • We realize Disappointment doesn't Define our self or moment, it only informs us.

  • We realize that engaging in Conflict is not the same thing as needing to Win, Be Right or Hurt Another- it's a way of speaking up about our valid terms/standards.

  • We no longer feel the need to defend our ideas of us against those who have differing ideas- because we presume differences are a natural part of life, and we don't have to bump up against or agree with others terms to define who we are and what we prefer.

  • And we begin to Forgive that what's happened can't be undone or unhappen- so comfortable concern, measured risks, trust and peace with ourselves become a part of who we are.

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Once we comprehend this we move "between passages" and suddenly feel unshaken by experiences- because we're confident in, appreciate and love ourselves, our choices (no matter what we've chosen) and the fact that our life is now unfolding from us rather than happening to us.
Upon initiating the 5th Passage then, a desire for travel, exploration, adventurous new moves, beginning new projects & being in groups sharing like-minded activities can often arise.


Even when this Passage is completed however, many do return to its challenges to learn the greatest lesson it gives- how to hold gratitude for difficult and discarded imprinting that no longer serves/helps us.

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