CHOOSE to QUESTION
With all this in mind, it's encouraged that you question and validate everything here. Question what you read, match it against your experiences and be willing to learn a bit about just another take on how you can understand your personality and everyone else's.
It's also encouraged you look past all your stereotypes & assumptions about each trait, as they are much more than just cardboard cut out tropes and behaviors.
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For instance, Passion describes a way of relating through inspiration in this system- but having it doesn't mean you're blatantly expressive and dramatic about what you're inspired by, and not having it doesn't mean you have no passion.
Everyone has passion in life, it's universal for all of us to care deeply about something that inspires us- but not all of us relate through passion, and rarely if ever in the same ways.
Every trait is like this, it's a universal quality in all of us, but not always a priority, blueprint or building block for our personality.
ACTIVE VALIDATION
If you immediately relate to a trait as how you see you, it is part of your PRIVATE Facet at this moment.
If you or another relates to a trait as how those outside you see you, it is a part of your PUBLIC Facet at this moment. These facets can and will change.
To see your True Facet requires active discernment and experimentation and it can be surprising or reveal hidden strengths/weaknesses to you. So take time to observe how your behaviors, feelings, thoughts etc. are truly fueled beyond immediate presumptions or expectations.
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Ultimately it does not matter how you feel you are, because aiming for the +Pole of any trait you relate with means you automatically aim for whatever the +Pole of your true trait is tpp.
In the same way, needing to take a break from such expansive perceptions in the +Pole and restrict your focus a bit to the -Pole of a trait you relate with will do the same to whatever your true trait's -Pole is.
CHOOSE to APPLY IT
In closing, if you truly want anything here to help you, you must APPLY it.
Test it out, expand yourself into your +Poles, allow yourself to restrict into your -Poles when needed, and allow this to be more than just passive information.
It is not actually going to help unless you choose to use it in some way.
If you learn something here that helps you CHOOSE better, easier and more consciously in life- or helps you navigate through otherwise difficult experiences- only then can this info ever be valuable.